Thoughts About Cremation
July 22nd, 2010
Many more people are choosing cremation today than in the past. People tend to have strong opinions one way or the other. For some the thought of being buried is not appealing. For others the thought of being cremated makes them uneasy. Either option can go against spiritual philosophy. It really comes down to personal preference.
One would think that the most basic difference between burial and cremation is obvious – using one method you are cremated, using the other you are buried. However, even if you are cremated someone will have to decide where your cremated remains will go. The decision will remain whether or not to be buried. Some family members need a place to visit (like a cemetery), others may find that thought morbid, and both of these opinions can run in the same family.
If you are not buried or placed in a niche at a cemetery, what will happen with your cremains? Being cremated allows the option of having multiple urns so immediate family members can have their own. There is beautiful jewelry that can hold a small portion of the cremains, or the cremains may be scattered over your favorite place.
Whatever choice is made it is beneficial if you share your thoughts with family members. That way your loved ones will know what you would like and won’t have to presume during a time that is typically fraught with stress and confusion.
